Jan 17, 2013

arguments?

Is it normal to argue with your other half most of the time?
ops
okay
i cant say much about this
just found out last week that hubs is one of the silent reader here

for you.
yes you lah..
i love you
even when we are arguing
even when you screamed at me
even when u give me cold shoulders
mak tak kisah
hihi

okay okay..not this


YES!
 


Jan 14, 2013

Horrifying Experience

So this what happened last Saturday
which I hope will never ever happen to any parent out there

Me and my hubs together with my brother, sisters went to The Curve just to hang out and also to bring Zidan jalan2.
My bro had sudden craving for the Ikea Meatballs sebab die tak penah makan
so beraraklah kitorang ke sana.
Masa tu dalam pukul 2.30 pm almost 3pm
you know lah, weekend at Ikea adalah macam war!
the queue at the cafe was sooo long I dunno how we managed to get our food like seriously!

anyways,
sementara I beratur with my bro & sis, my hubs dok jaga Zidan with the kids (my cousins)
mind you, nak dapat tempat duduk pun bercinta!
have to berebut macam kat kantin sekolah
even kantin sekolah pun kalau berebut cikgu datang tarik telinga uolls

so lepas dapat makanan, duduk makan2 dan makan lagi
lepas tu me breasfeed zidan
Zidan being Zidan, memang tak suka sit still lepas kenyang tu dok pusing2 here and there
so my sister volunteer nak pegang die
masa tu dia cakap

" boleh kot bagi zidan penutup botol ni? besar kan? tak muat masuk mulut die."

so we all sambung makan bile tetibe my sister jerit,

" Zidan telan penutup botol! Zidan telan penutup botol!"

mind you, ini penutup botol ni yang botol spintzer kaler hijau tu!!!

my sister korek2 tapi zidan dok meraung
She panicked, I panicked even more!
apa lagi korek jugak la penutup botol tu
and yes memang dah kat hujung tekak dia!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ya Allah!!! aku korek bagai nak gila
Alhamdullilah keluar jugak tapi zidan meraung bagai nak gila
I wasnt sure sebab sakit atau sebab dia sensed yang kitorang panik giler
my sister menggeletar satu badan, aku apatah lagi!

after that my hubs took him and tried to calm him down...he was okay for a while sebab kakak2 kat belakang main acah2
when
he vomitted
he vomitted susu campur darah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DARAH OK DARAH
terus hubs pegi bawak toilet to check further and washed himself sebab zidan vomit habis kene baju

we all tengok dengan rasa nak nangis
me almost wanted to scream!
then I said " jomlah balik pegi klinik right away"

dah separuh jalan gitu, my hubs keluar dari toilet and was shocked when he saw all left

"eh, why u all left? i have not finished my cake!"

dush!

"what? how is zidan? why was he vomit blood?"

"Zidan is fine, blood was from small cut from the bottle cap, see he is smiling now."

indeed he was smiling like always being cheeky and adorable
tapi mama pulak paranoid! my baby zidan......
i told him no need to go back because someone already sit there and I dont want to go back.
"Jom balik lah"

tapi kitorang tak balik pun right away, sebab I wanted to see how Zidan;s reaction after the incident
like if he was really back to normal atau ada apa2 tanda lain.
But he was fine...ALHAMDULLILAH!!!

my sister masa tu kept saying what if..what if..what if..
we both tried not to remember the incident. everytime we talk about it, i feel sick to my stomach

so to all parents out there
please dont repeat my mistake
never
i repeat
NEVER leave anything small around kids because
put things in their mouth is their only way of exploring things
please be alert at all times
I was lucky to be able to avoid a more serious injury/incident

balik tu, my hubs explained that Zidan wasnt really try to swallow the cap
the cap was just at the tip of his tongue
but my sister was already panicked she thought it already went deep tried to dig the cap out but actually she pushed it even more to the back of his throat.
i dont care how it happened.
it already happened
most important thing is he was fine
my sister pun still takut giler even shaking when we talked bout it later

that was a big wake up call for me

to be alert at all times

Jan 11, 2013

Review : Lujaa Alhumaira Contemporary

Review kali ni adalah untuk Lujaa dari Al-Humaira Contemporary

Untuk sapa2 yang first time nak beli Lujaa ni actually yang baru update dekat AHC tu adalah second batch
menggunakan material georgette
First batch yang keluar tahun lepas adalah material chiffon macam gambar kat bawah ni

aiseyman ternampak label pulak
 
 Material chiffon ni amatlah lembut. Sesetengah orang suka la kot.
tapi for me, material ni amatlah susah nk stay in place. Tak pasti kalau batch chiffon ni masih ade kt butik.
kalau dekat website memang dah lama sold out.

Lujaa yang batch terbaru ni adalah dari material georgette.
My favourite!
senang digayakan sebab jenis kain yang tak licin.

Hijau ni sangat ler santek! Combo dengan Brown.

Ini pink lavender combination. I like bright colors tapi sekali sekala nak town down jugak :)

This is how it looks like dari depan . (yeah, u guess rite, i run way sorang2 kt rumah)

Sisi side. super love this color!
 . 
Kuning+light brown ni beli sampai kemudian due to pos laju punye mishap 
 
Tak pastilah kalau u all boleh nampak perbezaan Lujaa Chiffon dan Lujaa Georgette ni. Tapi kalau nak dapatkan yang batch baru ni cepat2lah ke butik atau AHC and teruslah place your order. Sape2 hardcore fan bawal, you will love this sebab senang nk bentuk. Ye la ade je yang tak suke style melekap2 kat dahi ni kan? 

cubalah, and Happy Shopping!


Jan 10, 2013

Judging Motherhood

Kelmarin mama bawak Baby Zidan check up
surprisingly cepat pulak selesai mungkin sebab tak banyak appointment hari tu
seperti biase rutin nak check up kat klinik gomen adalah
* letak buku
* tunggu untuk disuruh timbang ( which semua orang akan berebut2)
* patu tunggu lagi sampai nama dipanggil untuk ukur panjang pulak
* pastu tunggu lagi untuk consultation dengan misi
kalau kena gaya baby yang sopan dan baik, lega lah mak bapak
tapi kalau kena bawak baby macam Zidan yang super active
nak merangkak sana sini, memang letih skit ar gitu

anyway
i dont know about you, but i think mak2 yang datang bawak anak check up tu suke mengjudge para ibu2 lain termasuk lah aku ni.
Mase dok menunggu turn, ternampaklah sorang mak ni yang beria2 bawak satu beg full of baby equipment
tengah dudu2k tu, nampaklah die dok campurkan susu formula ngan air nak bagi anak die minum lah obviously
nampak je adegan tu, me automatically judge die dengan ayat (dalam hati) yang tak boleh blah

"ey, kenapa tak bagi susu badan??"

"kesian weh kat baby tu?"

"tak awesome pun bagi anak susu tepung."

teruk tak aku? teruk kan?
kenapa aku judge orang sampai begitu sekali?
mungkin die dah habis usaha nak breastfeed anak dia
mungkin ada kekangan lain yang buat die tak boleh breastfeed
kenapa aku pulak lebih2 judge die sebegitu rupa?

mungkin berbalik kepada penyakit hati kot :(
aku berdosa sungguh :( :(


 formula feed atau breast feed, dua2 tetap cute



Jan 3, 2013

facebook unsubscription

how do you deal with the situation when someone you know  has just unsubscribed from getting your updates on facebook?
should you unsubscribe him/her back?
tetibe menyampah pulak dengan ko ni
grrr....


Jan 2, 2013

Happy 2013!

Last Saturday, akhirnye dapat jugak keluar lepak makan2 dengan BFFs Sue, Maria, Iza and Wanie bersama anak masing2 late lunch (or was it early dinner?)
lama sangat dah tak hang out same2 macam masa single dulu
kalau dulu sampai tengah2 malam pun boleh lagi lepak..
sekarang semua kena cut down dah beranak2 ni
dekat sahara tent near Bukit Bintang
foodwise memang terbayek ar. lagi sedap kot dari Tarbush
pricewise, boleh tahan la murah sikit je dari Tarbush.
me and my husband pilih side dish 3 4 jenis patu amik 2 main course (i picked Tashrib - Arabian bread in a delicious gravy of tomatoes, black lemon and chickpeas topped with lamb chop)
my husband tak ingat dah die amik ape
tapi pergh memang kenyang sampai malam
my friend Iza sampai pegi tapau the next day tu.

oh tapi, yang tak bestnye tempat ni
(which makes me not to come n eat here again) is, the whole restaurant is smoking area
tak kire lah ko dok dalam la luar ka, semua boleh smoke
which is sooooo irritating sebab kite bawak baby kan
so amatlah tak bagus.
next time memang kalau teringin nak makan lagi, kene tapau jek
so sapa2 nak cube tukar selera atau yang dah familiar dengan arab cuisine tapi dah tak ada idea nak makan kt mane selain the famous Tarbush tu (considering u all tak kisah orang smoking kat dalam tu) boleh la cube kt sini.
kesedapan adalah dijamin oleh saya haha

itu note2 sue hihi 


 lepas semua dah mentekedarah! amik gambo lah  


mereka teruja dengan roti yang sampai


 hubs dengan sophie. kalau terkenan boleh la dapat girl plak pas ni wehoo!

then lepas makan, i yang teramatlah perak ni akhirnye sampai jugak jejak kaki kat H&M
kesian okeh..been wanting to go! tapi nak pegi area Star Hill tu amatlah tidak semenggah
dengan very limited parking area and not to mention forever crowded place
so bile peluang dah ade ni, menyinggah lah
oh my i dont know why people crazy giler nak shop kt situ
but harga takda la mahal mana..
so sape2 yg teringin verangan ala2 dok London boleh ar shopping kat sini hehe

abang ayib sempat pakai carrier jidan. Ibu wanie dah jatuh cinta.


malam masih muda la konon! ibu2 yang tidak kesedaran diri :)


oh yea last Friday hubs tak tahan hati pegi jugak beli his own Note 2 hihi
tapi kali ni harga tak sama lah macam hari tu
he got himself the grey titanium color which looks more sophisticated plak than marble white
tak pe lah at least we wont get mixed up
so friday night tu kitorang jadi two freak adults yang stuck our heads to this superpower gadget




anyways, apa pun perancangan u all tahun ni (nak kahwin, nak tunang, nak tambah anak, nak pergi haji/umrah, nak berhijrah ke arah kebaikan) saya ucapkan semoga berjaya
Selamat tahun baru pada semua yang membaca
yang tak baca (sebab lost in translation) pun i nak wish happy new year jugak!
semoga tahun ini beri keberkatan pada saya sekeluarga dan anda2 juga Ins Sha Allah!



p/s : tahun ni nak bagi baby Zidan adik comel :)

pp/s : kalau boleh girl lah pulak. amin!

ppp/s : doakan plan nak balik kampung tahun ni menjadi :)